Love can be complicated. However, with a foundation in Yeshua our Messiah, God’s Word provides the standard, wisdom, and knowledge to understand in an easy and light way, the complexities of variables that influence detrimental factors to sustaining and maintaining a healthy relationship & marriage. Love is kind. Love compromises. Love is patient. Love is Truth. God is Love and He establishes the umbrella of understanding among the people. Marriage is the mirror image of the unity of The Kingdom of God through The Father & Son, our King and His inheritance, as well as through God and His children.
Someone recently presented the following question:
How many abusive relationships approve after a restraining order? In 2016, I got a restraining order on my husband for beating me. Now we’re back together. I know my friend’s hubby stopped beating her after her order.
Oh no…I’m sorry to hear about that…
but I’m not fully understanding your question. Do you mean “improve” after a restraining order?
If so, I would say that you should be incredibly concerned about the fact that you are a part of a culture and environment that has normalized abuse.
Your friend was a victim as well? Thank The Lord Jesus Christ that you both are alive and well. Too many victims don’t survive abuse whether emotional/mental or physical.
Once your spouse resorts to physical violence…what is the definitive factor that makes you believe it won’t happen again?
Why do you not value your life and well-being enough to endure the pain of being without someone who doesn’t know how to love you and is spiritually demented and sick?
Without Christ, there is no confirmation that he could be trusted. Both of these men have open doors in their lives that need to be addressed before time goes on and something arises that triggers another rage attack of verbal or physical violence.
My dear, it only takes one time of anger or recklessness to do something that one cannot come back from.
You only have one life to live and it would do you well to speak with someone to figure out why you have not had confidence to advocate for yourself and to understand where these insecurities stem from that allow you to be subjected to treatment that you don’t deserve…no one deserves it including your friend.
This is something that you shouldn’t take lightly. If you have children you also have to be a strong example for them. Being strong is having the ability to be willing to do what is right and do what is best for the betterment of preserving your heart, mind, and soul.
Make no mistake, staying in abuse which is endangering your life doesn’t help your husband it condones his behavior. Condoning sinful behavior as well as acting out in a harmful & sinful way is one and the same.
There are deep-rooted issues that need time, attention, and a mediator with a strong foundation in Christ our Great Meditator, to tell all of you the Truth in this matter.
God is Love and He has not made us in His image to be harmed by ourselves or others.
Please focus on what’s important, which is your well-being and the bright red warning flags in your marriage. I pray your friend will do the same. Be a support to one another and don’t overlook the obvious…which is this situation and environment are dysfunctional and it is not love. It is hate and it is harmful.
Christ is Strength, Peace, Joy, Provider, and Protector of His people…He can be that for you too as well as your friend. You do have choices in this life…be strong, and love yourself enough to make ones that will be beneficial for you and your family.
All the best.
As believers, we can make a difference, whether by acts of kindness, partaking in conversation, or simply answering a question, these events are opportunities to show what the mind of Christ looks like. Thereby, applying Biblical principles to circumstances we face in our everyday lives and daily living.
Philippians 2:5-11 NKJV
The Humbled and Exalted Christ
5 Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, 6 who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, 7 but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. 9 Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, 11 and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
2 Timothy 1:7 NKJV
For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.
May we mirror Christ’s Example of love & obedience.
Be holy for He Is Holy.
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